As a 2nd experiment I have now asked Chat GPT why families hesitate to spend time on pre-inheritance. Once again the comprehensiveness of the answer doesn’t help in disgarding this new development. I feel an uncomfortable sense of dependency coming up…:

Families may be hesitant to discuss inheritances before the testator’s death due to various reasons:

1. Emotional Sensitivity: Conversations about inheritance often involve discussions about mortality and can stir up emotions. Many individuals and families may find these discussions uncomfortable or even distressing.

2. Fear of Conflict: Family dynamics can be complex, and there may be concerns that discussing inheritance prematurely could lead to disagreements or conflicts. People may avoid these conversations to maintain family harmony.

3. Assumption of Complexity: Inheritance matters can be legally and financially intricate. Families might fear delving into these discussions without professional guidance, thinking it could be overwhelming or contentious.

4. Cultural or Social Norms: Cultural or societal norms may discourage open discussions about wealth or inheritance. Some families may see such conversations as inappropriate or taboo.

5. Avoidance of Jealousy or Resentment: Openly discussing inheritance may lead to feelings of jealousy or resentment among family members. To avoid these emotions, families might choose to keep financial matters private.

6. Unpredictability of Circumstances: Families may be uncertain about the future and potential changes in circumstances, such as the birth of new family members or changes in financial situations. This uncertainty can make it challenging to plan definitively.

Encouraging open communication and providing a safe, neutral space for discussions through mediation can help families address these concerns and navigate inheritance discussions more effectively.